So we all
know that nobody is perfect and here in Nigeria, more so. Doing a bit of
reading, gisting and gossiping. I came up with this list.
- Borrowing someone money all the time- na you nice pass. Don’t feel bad though cuz it’s not a bad thing but once you make this mistake once, you’ll learn to say no in the future. Sometimes its okay but you’ll learn that only a few people are actually credit worthy and just like finding Mr. Right, it’s hard to tell them apart.
- Immediate replies- don’t worry this can happen- Weda na real life convo abi na chat. You’ll learn soon enough that some hurried responses get you into more trouble than you need. Could be trying to explain that toaster to your parents or that incessant caller to your spouse or even that missing file to your boss. You’ll learn to take a deeper breath and plan your response more carefully in the future.
- Faking it- still a virgin? You’ll get there. For those of you who have well been there, you’ll soon realize that faking it would just lead your spouse to thinking he did everything just right. He will most likely not try anything different after that. Don’t beat yourself up. Communicate your needs. But once you’ve realized that faking it doesn’t lead to more heavenly feelings, you’ll realize that the alternative (communicating what really gets you off).
Lovely piece.
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